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My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year. We have a great dynamic and have always had amazing sex. I have a foot fetish and told her about it from the start. She is totally OK with it and we have incorporated it into our sex life here and there. I understand that it is new to her, but I wanted to try some more things with her slowly, and I asked her if she can sometimes initiate.
But when I talked to hershe said that I made her feel inadequate by asking. She believes that there is no point because it would feel weird for both of us. It is part of the task of deepening bonds between you and learning the rules of compatibility. During this process, the style of negotiation can become more like a power struggle.
One or both partners might start feeling coerced, ignored or frustrated. You are still at a trial and error stage. Try to be patient because this process always takes time.
Keep checking in with each other to make sure important boundaries are not crossed. Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a US-based psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders. If you would like advice from Pamela on sexual matters, send us a brief description of your concerns to private.
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